The truth of the matter is plain and simple the philosophy of BDSM is that it is safe, sane, and consensual. They think it is a way to abuse people for their own sick needs. People who are not familiar with the BDSM practice tend to think it is all about power and domination and humiliation. It is about taking control and fulfilling fantasies. BDSM is about trust and fulfilling the needs of someone else. The biggest misconception is that this lifestyle is strictly about sex. You can be single and play both the Dominant and submissive roles with different people. You can be married and have an outside Master. This is so far from the truth and it really bothers those who are in the BDSM lifestyle. However, newbies to the lifestyle only know what they have heard about and that is that the BDSM has only one aspect it is purely sexual and you have a Dom/sub relationship. Suddenly vanilla men and women were curious as to the different aspects of the lifestyle. BDSM has been a pretty quiet lifestyle for many years until 50 Shades of Grey came along.
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